Guest post
by David Jensen, CPRW
There are three areas of your life that tend to have the strongest demand for
your attention—personal, professional, and financial. This is especially true
if you are a work-at-home parent. Picture a pie chart featuring each of these
categories. Ideally you would like to achieve a balance in these three areas;
however, this type of life balance is rare and even if you do reach it at some
point, it is difficult to sustain.
If you work at
home, you know there will be disruptions to your work as you strive to
accommodate the needs of your children. When this is the case, you aren’t able
to devote as much time to your work which means on your life-balance pie chart,
the professional and financial areas of your life are much smaller. Remind
yourself that the current status is okay because the personal portion of your
life is doing well.
This is an
area that I struggle with the most. No matter which segment absorbs the bulk of
my attention, I often think that there is more I should be doing to bolster the
other portions of my pie chart. The best way I have found to assuage this
mental tug-of-war is to remind myself that each area goes through cycles.
Since I started
my business, I have noticed that mid-way through the summer months my business
slows down. It happens about the same time every year. During this time I often
feel like I should be doing more to promote my services and bring in new
business. I finally recognized that my business slowed down at a time each year
and when my kids are out of school. During this time, I spend less money and
spend more time with the children.
It’s easy to
stress over maintaining a comfortable balance with your three dimensions. Remind
yourself that your current status is okay because you are giving attention to
an area of your life that is the most important right now. This helps remove
the guilt and frustration that comes with having to spread your attention so
thin.
About the Author
-For the home-based business owner, managing professional and personal challenges (when both are operating out of the same place) can be very difficult. David raises a valid concern many home workers have about guilt over assigning the right priorities between business and family.





